The treat of a child disconnecting from his parents during an ugly divorce is very real. Many time the divorce goes to the court where it comes down to the properties and custody. This is where things get bad very dirty and the child gets hugely ignored and alienated. This process has a psychological name known as the parental alienation syndrome or PAS. This is the case where one parent induces negative thoughts and ideas about the other parent. This is done by the parent so that the child does not like the other parent. It is actually brainwashing which is also a form of child emotional abuse. It occurs is different ways but always leads to Parental Alienation abuse. In some cases the negative thoughts are induced from both the sides and lets the child to vilify the parent.
The parent is responsible for Parental Alienation Syndrome with the idea to put hatred in one parent for the other parent. It becomes hard sometimes for a psychologist to understand if the child is saying the words of the parents or is she saying own thoughts. The mind Online of the child is soft in the early stages which lead to things being permanently lodged in. Parents might do this unknowingly by constant nagging against the other parent or by cursing the other parent. This a bad case of parenting and both mom and dad are important for the proper raising of the child.
There are three stages of Parental Alienation syndrome. In the first stage the syndrome is not that obvious with the child not showing any signs of hatred to the other parent. In the second stage the chills shows confused signs where the child can also be distressed when the child is passed on to the other parent.